When something is over, INFPs get consumed with feelings that lasts a good amount of time. Insurmountable depression, waves and waves, of just confusion, negotiating possibilities, refeeling the rejection or reliving the conflict drains us but yet we can't help but engage in the past again over and over, and up and down, like roller coaster of mood swings, our feelings and entire well being get manipulated by thoughts. We may get into the introverted sensing and introverted feeling function loop and try to replay what has happened, and feel the feelings again, and each time it hurts even more.

INFPs, being prone to melancholy are likely to self blame, self pity, soak into the emotional pain for as long as is needed to fully process the situation. We withdraw, and become isolated, and if INFPs fall into depression, we stop using the extraverted intuition part of us that accepts new ideas, we close ourselves off and just relive the pain over and over, until eventually time heals all, but deep down inside, a familiar scar will form. This is when it's a good idea to involve the INFP into safe activities in small groups to prevent them from stoking in the unhealthy wallowing process. The good thing about working through all the emotional pain is that it adds to our internal emotional landscape, which makes for excellent empathy material, and it's probably the best time for INFPs to engage in art to express all the deep, complex feels that sometimes cannot be rationalized into easy understanding texts.

But when the INFP is fully healed, we go back into our 'healer' function, we go around and heal selective sick people back to emotional and mental health. That's the giving nature of INFPs.

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