i'm aware that i have a really shitty and bitchy personality but at least i know the difference between what's right and what's wrong (well ... at least most of the time) and what being nice is even though i don't practise that behaviour often. if someone does you a favour, accept it graciously and act with gratitude. don't even get your logic - why do you treat those who're just being nice to you with condemnation and detest?? they're not looking down on you, they're trying to help you!! -___- they could have easily left you in your state of misery but no they went out of their way to help you and this is how you treat them?? fine be it then.